Find it in (oneself) (to do something) spoken language
Used to describe the act of having the courage, compassion, or ability to do something.
Jane can't find it in herself to forgive him.
The boss can't find it in himself to lay off him after he had just found out his wife had passed away.
I can't find it in myself to break up with him. He really loves me.
I can't find it in myself to refuse her invitation.
Said of a strong and courageous nature
Used to say that someone is very courageous.
1. (literal) To make something stronger by supporting it
2. (figurative) To mentally or physically prepare yourself or someone else for something unpleasant that is going to happen
To have the bravery to do something risky, difficult, or unpleasant.
If someone has nerves of steel, they have the ability to control fear and stay calm in stressful situations.