It Was Written in the Stars phrase
Used to say that something is destined to happen
It was written in the stars that we met and fell in love with each other.
I don't think her success is written in the stars because she has been working hard to obtain it.
Everything happens the way it should, especially bad things and there's nothing you can do and no reason to be sad about it.
If you say an event or situation seals your fate, you mean that some unpleasant things will certainly happen to you.
Used to describe a person being more careful after an accident or a bad experience in the past to avoid it happening again.
I drive more carefully after an accident when I was little because a burnt child dreads the fire.