Tell (one) where to put it rude slang
If you tell someone where to put something, you tell them that you are irritated and are refusing to accept or do something.
We stared at John in shock for a moment when he told the teacher where to put it when being asked to answer a question.
I was held in contempt because of telling the judge where to put it when he ordered me to remain silent.
The verb "tell" must be conjugated according to its tense.
The origin of this slang is not clear.