Tell (one) where to shove it informal verb phrase rude slang
Used to indicate an expression of annoyance or anger.
If Mary lets me do the project alone, I will tell her where to shove it.
Jack asked me to lend him some money, but I told him where to shove it.
Express one's feelings of anger very strongly in spoken words
To look or glare very angrily at someone
to release your anger
A woman who has been rejected in love is the one who has the most anger.
Daughter: So I really want all my friends to have a great time. I was thinking it would be a good idea to have some candy out on the tables for people to snack on.
Mother: Well, if you want them to really enjoy themselves, candy is dandy but liquor is quicker.