These things are sent to try us saying
This idiom is often used to express that you should accept an unpleasant situation or event because you cannot change it:
I found out my mother was diagnosed with cancer, after I broke up with him. I know these things are sent to try us.
"My car and laptop broke down at the same time." "Oh well, these things are sent to try me."
After I had broken up with my girlfriend, I got flu for two weeks. I have to say that these things are sent to try me.
When you experience extreme and undesirable situations, it is probably essential to take extreme actions
Once something has been done, you can do nothing but face the consequences.
The idea of the saying comes from a belief that every event happens because someone wanted it to.
Daughter: So I really want all my friends to have a great time. I was thinking it would be a good idea to have some candy out on the tables for people to snack on.
Mother: Well, if you want them to really enjoy themselves, candy is dandy but liquor is quicker.