Wallow in the mire verb phrase
To remain in a unpleasant or negative situation because one doesn't want to change
He still wallows in the mire of all uncleanness.
I don't want to wallow in the mire with you.
To be trapped in a situation that never changes
To pay a specified amount of money, usually reluctantly.
Not to do something because it requires too much effort.
The verb "wallow" should be conjugated according to its tense.
Don't make plans that depend on something hoped before it has actually happened.
Don't make sure that the result will be good until it actually happens.
You should not make sure anything before you actually win the first prize. Don't count your chickens before they are hatched. Everything can happen.