Be out of (one's) depth phrase
To be in a state of affairs that is too difficult for you to handle or comprehend.
I am a monolingual person. Therefore, when he asked me in a foreign language, I was out of my depth.
At that time, I was only able to ride a bike, so when he told me to ride a motorbike, I was out of my depth.
This expression alludes to being in water so deep that one might sink. It dates from around 1600.
To not wonder, worry or be surprised about what is not predicted will happen in life because anything could happen
Sometimes, the secret to stay happy is to expect the unexpected.